OK let’s rename ‘foreplay’ sex so we can all relax and forget about the ‘main game’ of penetration! The main game is sexual intimacy and pleasure. It’s connection and stimulation, arousal through words, touch and emotion. We don’t need to be ‘in love’, but to have good sex we need respect, empathy and joy in touch. This article is one of many I have just discovered and I absolutely love it. Go the advice for men to woo women! Go the guy who says that men can come anywhere, any time, but that women need a bit of special attention – starting with the right attitude. Read on if you dare.
Great Sex = Great Foreplay
For some reason or another, I decided at some point to give my girlfriend foreplay every single time we became intimate. Whether in my bedroom, in a hotel room, in the car or on a hike, my foreplay begins every session of sexual intimacy.
I have distilled these rules for you as a quick guide.
1. As a man, foreplay is something you must always give.
While it is very arousing for your woman to give you a little handjob, blowjob, or intimate licking before the act, it is absolutely key that you always give her some sort of foreplay.
2. You can never give too much foreplay.
While the male sexual experience is based on the culmination ejaculation, the female sexual experience happens in the sustained intimacy. Whether raw and wild, or slow and sensual, your surest way of sustaining her feelings of intimacy…
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